The number of female contacts they have in their cellphones seems to be far more important to them and their egos, than that one special woman with whom he could create a lasting, committed relationship.And although they certainly want the physical sex, they do not want the emotional and vulnerability components that are required for a true relationship.In the past, even with online dating, getting offline was much faster and smoother.
It’s frustrating to never hearing from a man again after a date, especially if you’ve made tentative plans to meet again.
As a result of this happening, if I know I’m not planning on seeing someone again, I am honest and send a message. Also, when someone persistently contacts me and there is no interest on my part, I send a kind email wishing him well.
Dating process is very time consuming, almost as a hobby or a job.
It is hard, because involves a lot of rejection and also inflicting hurt on others, not intentionally, but as part of the process.
Women and many men have been very hurt, with egos bruised, from their prior relationships.