Guys on dating virgins
Everything is going well until, one night, he starts to push things past the limits of your sexual comfort zone.After a quick battle in your conscience, you stop him and reluctantly tell him "I can't..." followed by an apologetic, blush-filled explanation about how you were raised, how hard it is to constantly disappoint men, and how difficult it is to live with the fear of being "found out" by your friends.
He even seems sincere when he tells you how much he admires your decision and sometimes wishes that he'd stayed a virgin too. You understand that men want sex, but this guy seemed different... Of course, there are many variations on this story.However, in the next few days, his contact and initiative plummet. Maybe you wanted to sleep with him, but something made him suspicious, and he asked if you were a virgin before anything happened.Or maybe you made it clear that you really didn't want to stay a virgin, but that you just needed a little longer together before having sex.Or maybe you actually asked him to sleep with you, right then and there, because you were fed up with being a virgin and figured you might as well lose it with him as with the next guy.However it happened for you, the result was probably the same: he disappeared.I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
Imagine you are dating a guy who doesn't know that you are a virgin.
You've probably assumed that men act this way for one or more of the following reasons: For some men, a combination of these things will play a role in their decision, but usually it will be a minor one.
If you are hot enough, men won't give up very easily at all - particularly players, who know that women often say no at first, only to give in soon afterwards.
No man is "weirded out" by the idea of virginity to the point that it would actually prevent him from enjoying sex.