It should have came to me a while back, a few months ago, I was dating a woman and I realized I was chasing this girl all around at a certain point I had to stop myself. I deserve better than that.” Then came the hard part – it’s really easy for a woman to have a Streissand moment and tell a guy what she deserves and that she’s better than what he’s giving her.
For men, it’s damn hard to do that without coming across as an asshole.
I realized that if I turned the tables around and made each one of these specific for women, it would be perfect fine.
Have I ever heard of a woman breaking up with a guy because he wouldn’t trust her? Have I ever heard of a woman breaking up with a guy because he was too jealous? Have I heard of a woman who just stopped returning calls and texts because she fell out of “like” with him? How many times have I heard, “he’s a nice guy, but I’m not attracted to him”? And last but not least, have I ever heard of a woman breaking up with a guy because the sex was bad? I guess it’s not so much about the list but it was about the realization that I think that men should be able to take an active role in the selection process of their mate.
You shouldn’t be forced to be in a relationship because skipping out on a unwanted relationship makes you a bad man. It’s not you saying you’re better than someone, it’s you saying that you’re worth more than what you’re currently being offered.