God is the one who will make a way, so walk with Him daily.
If you are on a personal connection, like at home, you can run an anti-virus scan on your device to make sure it is not infected with malware.
I'm sure it wasn't the first time he did that to her, but it was probably the last straw.
Begin with pursuing God (Matthew -34) and become the healthiest person you can become. Get your relationship needs met outside the dating context. Learn your patterns (old relationship patterns from your original family, seeking completion for something you lack in yourself, idealistic wishes for yourself, inability to set boundaries, fear of closeness or intimacy) and work on them so you do not repeat them. Date according to a few nonnegotiable values (faith, honesty, sexual purity, etc.). Be open to going out with people who you would normally not have on your list. Be who you are and give the other person the freedom to do the same. Don't put up with bad behavior, and set good boundaries.
So it's late at night, you're feeling frisky and you've found your way to the internet.
You want to find something fun and saucy to read, but there's so much junk out there!
How do you wade through the lousy, cheap pornography to find erotica of high quality?